We create our own reality.
If we want to get to know our Shadow Self, all we need to do is look at the condition of our life. Unwanted experiences are actually a reflection of our own Shadow Self.
The sunflower in the picture represents life, joy, light the exact opposite of what the girl is feeling at that exact moment. Her facial expression shows how every day life can be a struggle full of sadness. But she is clinging onto that flower and is hoping for a beautiful life. She hopes to find the balance between her conscious and unconscious mind. All she has to do is let go of the worry showing her true dark side, no, she needs to let the light and the darkness work together.